Dance Bullies

Are our young girls learning to tolerate being bullied in dance class?

After viewing a certain dance class instructor's tactics and conduct while instructing these very young ladies, I would think so.Mothers am I missing something?


dThe dance girls are being bullied and statements are made to them that are not in a professional manner, especially when there is some drama between the instructor and the Mother.


I don't know who pays anyone to bully them or their child.What concept does the mother indulge in to make this behavior acceptable?


Being pushy, loud and sometimes disrespectful is unacceptable behavior and not what you would want a young child to be exposed to.Most of us were taught that you should treat others as you wish to be treated.


As these young people grow up into young adults, will they carry this behavior with them and feel that it is okay to endure such behavior? They might just think since their mother introduced them to this behavior that it must be okay.It is not okay under any circumstances.

TIME


No, I am not talking about daylight savings time. I am exploring life time and how
 much of this life each of us have remaining and what we do with this time. To my
 astonishment and disbelief my life time was compromised and challenged. I was
diagnosed with cancer.

All of this time that I thought I had, went right out the window in a split second.
Now I was thrown into a state of  fear, confusion and sadness. Yes, I heard what
 the doctor said, but was he really talking to me? acceptance was the next to follow
 along with total bewilderment  as to what would be the next step in
treating my illness.

There was no time to daydream, procrastinate or keep promises made. I had to
 depend on others to help me continue my life time. So far I am able to continue
 my life time ,with the help of my Surgeon, Oncology  Doctor, Nurses and Radiology
 Specialists and all involved.  I also continued to say my prayers.

Family and friends gave me the support and love that I so needed which played a major
 roll in my  recovery.

Thank You All.

Any comments and questions are welcomed

Young Adults--Re-direct education

Internet savvy young adults, it is time to re-direct your interest to Global and world wide events and a education that enables you and your families to survive in this changing environmental era. Everyone has had a break by immersing themselves into computer technology and the likes, showing how intelligent you are, which you all have demonstrated your ability to figure out most things.

Now is the time to get back on track to the business at hand, and that is having a safe environment to live in. Finding out about our nuclear situation and what ever else you need to help our world be a safer place, a fair and just place for all. Go back to school and re-educate yourselves with the issues that are causing turmoil all over the world.

Invest in your life by securing a education which will insure you and all to be able to survive in our changing world, which seems to be experiencing many adverse findings in a lot of our in-place technologies and systems. The earth is changing along with the atmosphere . We need to know what should be utilized and what could become a threat to us.

My point is, you have mastered the computer technologies, now it it time to master the technology of
what makes the world go round safely. It time to really pay attention to your earthly surroundings.

Cairo, Egypt

Where there is a will there is a way, as the old saying goes. The people of Cairo have demonstrated that a large and organized group can change their destiny. With the hope and belief of together we stand , divided we fall has paid off for the first segment of this struggle, for all to to be treated fairly and just.

With the use of the Internets, face book and Mobil, they have been able to expose those that were unjust.The savvy of their young people fueled by education and fearlessness proved to be rewarding. The exposure on world wide news and Internet lessened the retaliation of punishment by the unjust.What is the next step for them to truly accomplish and complete what they started out to do? Gain freedom and justice for all.

The demonstrations are over, the square is cleaned up, and now back to the business at hand. What is best,
waiting for someone to choose their leader or making that decision on their on? They know better as to who is left in the regime and if they can be trusted. So it is time to get back to their dwellings and communicating with each other and making some suggestions as to whom they would choose to lead them.

I commend them for their togetherness and the non violence demonstrated during this trying time. It is not wise to rely on their military forces if they are already demonstrating for a  an increase in  salaries. How long will the armed forces be passive and fair? It is time for the people of Cairo to get back to the drawing board. The first battle has been won. Get prepared so there won't be another. May you all be safe on your journey to Freedom

New Year Sun Rise

A new year has arrived and not without the ways of the world. Like all things there is a combination of good and bad. Is this what makes the world go around ? We learn from the bad and hopefully we are guided to the good. Starting over is something we all must do at one time or another. This might not mean everything, but those things that need to be changed for the good of all.

One might say change what? It's not my fault.Making this a better world for all is the key to prosperity, love and equality. A puzzle as it might seem must have all the pieces to be made complete and whole.

Living without a purpose is no life at all. In order for all us to be complete and safe we must find and reach out and help  those that are lost in this world of ours.

If we don't take the time to find and help others in their time of need and guidance, they will come to us and we will not be prepared for the encounter. Stop ignoring the signs of total disarray in  one's behaviour, whether it be child or adult, your own or some one's family.

Maybe some type of agency needs to be established where one could report an issue , therefore professional help could be offered and the parties involved  be alerted that there is a problem and what to do about it. 

 Help take away the darkness and let the Sun Rise in every one's world. 

Holiday Spirit

            MERRY CHRISTMAS  & HAPPY NEW YEAR

                                 TO  ALL

Thanksgiving

Thanksgiving is one of the holidays that we share with family and friends.This is one of the days that we make time to be with our loved ones and friends. We prepare our favorite foods and enjoy each other.
Most of us remember the kitchen giving off aromas that made you stay awake almost all night, hoping that daylight would come so you could savor all the goodies.The cakes, pies and that turkey with the stuffing that was better than the last time.
Those days are returning for most of us as we scurry around making grocery lists and trying not to forget anything. We will not forget those of us that are not able to enjoy Thanksgiving like before. Remembering others is what this day is all about. Donating a turkey is a  great idea or even volunteering your help at a kitchen that will be serving Thanksgiving meals to those in need. Dropping by an elderly neighbor with  a
home cooked meal is also a way we can share this day.
 Let's really make this a Happy Thanksgiving for all.

Veterans Day

To all the Veterans and Military that served and have enabled us to live free and safe.

THANK YOU !

BULLIES...

To be or not to be a Bully. Bullies are created not born. A newborn infant is not automatically a bully, so where is it coming from. Turn on the TV, listen to the message that is being sent out by some. Threats that are so causally said with no regard for one's feelings. Politicians are guilty of this as we have just seen and heard during this last election. Some of the Celebrities have demonstrated some vile behavior. Children and young adults are also included.

It's way past due to start looking deeper into this problem. We as as a people have gone way off track as to what is acceptable and what is not. We have even more school age children reenacting this terrible behavior.

Our children deserve better and it is time to stand up and say NO MORE! It takes a village to raise our children. Has the village gone on vacation or what? Do you really know how your child is digesting all of this negativity and Bulling attitudes. Some of them wait until the parent is out of sight and demonstrate the same behavior. You as a parent might say never, not my child, but as the old saying goes, never say never.
There used to be a time when behavioral standards were set very high, now the bar is below what is needed to have a healthy and stable family.It is sad to think that in the long run that the repetitive bulling and negative behavior will become the norm in our society.

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