Dance Bullies

Are our young girls learning to tolerate being bullied in dance class?

After viewing a certain dance class instructor's tactics and conduct while instructing these very young ladies, I would think so.Mothers am I missing something?


dThe dance girls are being bullied and statements are made to them that are not in a professional manner, especially when there is some drama between the instructor and the Mother.


I don't know who pays anyone to bully them or their child.What concept does the mother indulge in to make this behavior acceptable?


Being pushy, loud and sometimes disrespectful is unacceptable behavior and not what you would want a young child to be exposed to.Most of us were taught that you should treat others as you wish to be treated.


As these young people grow up into young adults, will they carry this behavior with them and feel that it is okay to endure such behavior? They might just think since their mother introduced them to this behavior that it must be okay.It is not okay under any circumstances.

BULLIES...

To be or not to be a Bully. Bullies are created not born. A newborn infant is not automatically a bully, so where is it coming from. Turn on the TV, listen to the message that is being sent out by some. Threats that are so causally said with no regard for one's feelings. Politicians are guilty of this as we have just seen and heard during this last election. Some of the Celebrities have demonstrated some vile behavior. Children and young adults are also included.

It's way past due to start looking deeper into this problem. We as as a people have gone way off track as to what is acceptable and what is not. We have even more school age children reenacting this terrible behavior.

Our children deserve better and it is time to stand up and say NO MORE! It takes a village to raise our children. Has the village gone on vacation or what? Do you really know how your child is digesting all of this negativity and Bulling attitudes. Some of them wait until the parent is out of sight and demonstrate the same behavior. You as a parent might say never, not my child, but as the old saying goes, never say never.
There used to be a time when behavioral standards were set very high, now the bar is below what is needed to have a healthy and stable family.It is sad to think that in the long run that the repetitive bulling and negative behavior will become the norm in our society.